{"id":2431,"date":"2014-06-30T19:15:00","date_gmt":"2014-06-30T19:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lospoliticosveracruz.com.mx\/?p=2431"},"modified":"2014-10-10T03:00:16","modified_gmt":"2014-10-10T03:00:16","slug":"una-decision-personal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lospoliticosveracruz.com\/?p=2431","title":{"rendered":"Una decisi\u00f3n personal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Sheyla Fuertes Lara<\/b> <br \/><i>Mujeres que saben lat\u00edn<\/i>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div>En nuestro pa\u00eds hay 112 millones 336 mil 538 habitantes, de acuerdo con cifras el Instituto Nacional de Estad\u00edstica, Geograf\u00eda e Inform\u00e1tica, y se encuentra entre los 11 m\u00e1s poblados del mundo. <br \/>A nivel mundial hay una poblaci\u00f3n aproximada de 6 mil millones de personas y en los pa\u00edses en desarrollo se presenta un fen\u00f3meno que cada d\u00eda toma m\u00e1s fuerza, el incremento de mujeres y hombres que deciden no tener hijos e hijas. <br \/>En una \u00e9poca moderna, donde un gran porcentaje de mujeres se preparan, ejercen sus profesiones, se informan, van postergando la idea de ser madres  y esto incluye a algunas parejas que asumen esta situaci\u00f3n. <a name='more'><\/a><br \/>En M\u00e9xico, a\u00fan el n\u00famero es menor, pero poco a poco va aumentando. Y es que los roles van cambiando, los tiempos son otros; las parejas se vuelven independientes, disfrutan su libertad, sus espacios. Desafortunadamente esta libertad e independencia en las mujeres no es bien vista y genera incomodidad. <br \/>En pa\u00edses como Alemania, Italia y Suiza el promedio de edad del primer parto de las mujeres es m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de los 30 a\u00f1os y en M\u00e9xico aunque los embarazos en adolescentes se incrementaron, otro porcentaje de la poblaci\u00f3n pospuso la idea de casarse y tener una familia. <br \/>De acuerdo con algunas investigaciones sobre la no maternidad, hay razones predominantes entre las mujeres que decidieron no quedar embarazadas. Est\u00e1n las que consideran al mundo como un lugar muy inseguro para vivir, y se cuestionan c\u00f3mo traer beb\u00e9s a un lugar en guerra y con tantos problemas. Algunas no se creen lo suficientemente capaces para criar a un ni\u00f1o. Piensan que no ser\u00edan buenas madres. Otras, sencillamente, nunca sintieron eso que se llama instinto maternal. <br \/>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 se presenta este fen\u00f3meno? En algunos casos las mujeres decidimos ser independientes, disfrutar de nuestros espacios, vivir sin el compromiso que representa el matrimonio y la maternidad, por lo que cada vez somos m\u00e1s en el mundo las que tomamos esta decisi\u00f3n. <br \/>Cu\u00e1ntas veces no hemos escuchado letan\u00edas como \u201c\u00bfpara cu\u00e1ndo? \u00a1Ya est\u00e1s grande! \u00a1Te vas a quedar a vestir santos!\u201d En el caso de las casadas si ya tienen un hijo o hija \u201c\u00bfPara cu\u00e1ndo el segundo? \u00a1Que tenga un hermanito! Tengan la parejita \u00bfno?\u201d Cuando esta es una decisi\u00f3n que debe ser tomada s\u00f3lo por la pareja o la mujer, no por la familia, ni los amigos. <br \/>Tambi\u00e9n escuchamos frecuentemente que las mujeres tenemos el don de ser madres, que es algo natural, que es un instinto que nos invade, que no debemos perdernos esa gran oportunidad, que es lo mejor que nos puede pasar, que si no somos madres dejamos ir un gran tesoro, que estamos hechas para reproducirnos, entre otras ideas comunes. <br \/>No tengo hijos por decisi\u00f3n propia, y eso no me hace menos mujer, ni inhumana, ni  ego\u00edsta, ni cobarde como me lo dijeron alguna vez. Ni siento que me haya perdido de la luz y bondades que deja el ser madre, simplemente soy yo con mi decisi\u00f3n. <br \/>Respeto a las mujeres que decidieron ser mam\u00e1s, las valoro y reconozco, en especial a las madres solteras que enfrentan un doble reto. En ocasiones he escuchado que un d\u00eda me arrepentir\u00e9 de no haber tenido un hijo. No lo s\u00e9, vivo mi presente. <br \/>Puedo ser objeto de cr\u00edticas al pensar as\u00ed, pero como decisi\u00f3n personal creo que no me he equivocado. Las mujeres somos libres de decidir sobe nuestro cuerpo y eso implica el tener o no tener hijos.  <br \/>Tal vez no todas contamos con ese instinto maternal, que dicen que existe, o simplemente no quisimos explorar esa \u00e1rea de nuestras vidas y no por ello somos seres incompletos, o somos menos o m\u00e1s. <br \/>Vivimos en una sociedad machista en la que aun no es bien visto que las mujeres tomemos decisiones. \u00bfAcaso el cuerpo no es propio? \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 el derecho a decidir sobre lo que una quiere ser es tan cuestionado? <br \/>Somos seres racionales con decisiones propias, si llegamos a equivocarnos asumimos las consecuencias. En el caso de la maternidad o paternidad, es una visi\u00f3n de vida que asumimos algunas, algunos y la vivimos con plenitud.  <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sheyla Fuertes Lara Mujeres que saben lat\u00edn&nbsp; En nuestro pa\u00eds hay 112 millones 336 mil 538 habitantes, de acuerdo con cifras el Instituto Nacional de Estad\u00edstica, Geograf\u00eda e Inform\u00e1tica, y se encuentra entre los 11 m\u00e1s poblados del mundo. 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